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5 Things to Remember When Scoping Out a Pro-Domme:



1. Do your homework. Read up on things online or in books that give you some idea of the things that you’re interested in. You don’t have to know everything about what you might want to try and you can change your mind, but at least come in with a few ideas of the things she can help you explore. If you think that you have a hidden masochist that wants to come out, consider some sensations that interest you. Even if you’re not interested in physical pain, some people are still interested in mind fucks or humiliation. Pain is relative, but consider if you’re into it in any way or if it’s something to be avoided.


2. Consider if you have emotional baggage that can be surfaced if you engage in certain activities. For example, will it resurrect negative past memories if you’re slapped in the face? Sometimes people use BDSM as therapy. It’s okay to have cathartic experiences; in fact, that’s encouraged, but be sure to at least think about some of your emotional triggers. It may not be possible to avoid everything, but it would behoove both you and the Domme to be mindful of those things.

3. Do you have any physical ailments that a Domme needs to know? Are you diabetic? Do you have a bum shoulder? This is important because it may restrict some of the things you do or you may have to find other ways to do it. Do not keep this information to yourself! It’s important that you play safely. You want to make the most of the experience and it would be a real bummer if you have to stop during play because you failed to mention an important limitation.

4. Come clean. In all ways. You need to be physically clean. Shower. Do not make her endure your mess. Some Pro-Dommes will insist that you leave and come back when you’re clean. Don’t embarrass yourself that way. In addition to being physically clean, don’t come in sloppy drunk or dangerously high. It’s not safe for either of you to play that way and most Dommes will send you away for that, too.

5. Leave a tip. I know it already costs money to see a Pro in the first place, but she put a lot of work into making your experience a positive one. She will put a lot of work into making your experience a positive one in the future. It takes a lot of time, energy and money to be a good Pro-Domme. She had to learn and hone her skills and she had to buy those fancy toys and hot outfits that you love to see her in. It may cost you a lot to hire a Pro, but it will cost you even more to hire an amateur. Show your appreciation and she’ll show you hers.

Above all relax and enjoy your experience. You might have to shop around to find just the right fit for you, but when you do, she’ll help make your fantasies come true. One of the best and easiest ways to find your new Domme is by shopping around online. Check webcam sites and talk to different Dommes about what mutually interests both of you. If you’re not ready to venture out with your BDSM fantasies, finding an online Domme is a safe and easy way to explore from the comfort and control of your own home. Remember, just as in the real world, the more vocal you are with your interests, the more she can help your fantasy come true. The more open you are to her interests, the more fantasies you may discover.

 

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